You know exactly what I am talking about, now, don’t ya??? When you are trying Soo….Freakin’…….HARD to reach a much desired goal. The frustration of delays is just that much more pissed-mood-inducing when you have been dealing with continual set backs since the day you started! GRRRRR!!!! ARRRGGHHH!!!! $#**@&!!!!!!!
At times like this, the life coach in me leaps galliantly out of the woodwork, sporting her Super Hero cape and perky tits! (Mine has Hello Kitty ears on her headgear, of course!) And what does the sassy savior of my life shout? “Reframe that, ya silly beotch!!!”
The art of the “reframe”–it’s my best pal! This simple thought process we can all learn enables us to merely CHOOSE to view our situation in a different, positive light. When frustrated repeatedly and just about nothing is going according to our plan, we tend to perceive everything in life as just a steaming sack of horse sh*t. And that is when I do the following:
1. Release that steam! Cuss, kick the beanbag chair, rant up a storm to your BBF, whatever you need to do to release tension so you are primed to reconsider your life.
2. Ask myself the following ???: What could be the hidden benefit to this situation? What actions do I need to take to allow life to flow more smoothly? What is the worst thing about this dilemma? Now is it really that dang bad? This are some basic starters, and there are many more depending on the “mess” at hand.
Most importantly, I always remind myself of Divine Order. The Universe provides for me in whatever manner serves me best at the time. I simply can’t receive something I am not ready for, and that is all there is to it. Reflecting on the fact that I WILL succeed in my goal, when the time and circumstances are best, makes me oh so chipper.
Life Coach Super Hero has a mammoth “tool box” of techniques to assist me in reframing and calming down about my path, but this is just the “starter kit” I was called to share today.
If you need help reframing your life so that energy flows more smoothly, then contact me about life coaching. Call or text 317-440-8783. I work by phone with out of Indy clients. My Life Coach Super Hero can help you save your own day too!